Discover, once and for all, what irony is and is not. Explore three types of irony: verbal, situational and dramatic, and learn about some famous and everyday examples.
What Is Irony?
The 1995 pop song by singer Alanis Morissette, 'Ironic,' presents a number of bad-luck situations, from 'rain on your wedding day' to finding an ideal mate and learning he or she is already married. The problem, though, is that not one of the situations described in the song is actually ironic.
The concept of irony and what makes a situation 'ironic' is something many people struggle with, mostly because overuse of the term can make its definition unclear. Often confusing irony with bad luck or coincidence, popular culture and media are quick to label things as ironic when sometimes they just aren't.
Irony is a literary device that relies on the difference between expectation and outcome.
While no one wants it to rain on their wedding day, a rain-free wedding is not a guarantee for any bride and groom. Bad luck, but not ironic. Same with meeting the 'man of your dreams' and finding he's already married. Tough break, but it's been my experience that you can't reasonably expect every dream man you encounter to be available to commit to you forever.
In those examples, there is no actual discrepancy between expectation and outcome. You can, however, reasonably expect a song about ironic situations to contain ironic situations. That all the situations described in 'Ironic' are not ironic is, in fact, ironic.
Now that we have a handle on what irony is not, let's explore three different types of irony: verbal, dramatic and situational.
Verbal Irony and Examples
Verbal irony is the use of language to express the opposite sentiment than what is expected. The most recognizable form of verbal irony is sarcasm, where the speaker says the opposite of what they mean, often for comedic effect.
Sometimes my dad will serve himself dessert and tell the rest of the family that it is 'disgusting' while simultaneously shoveling it in his mouth. He uses sarcasm, saying it is disgusting when he's clearly enjoying it, to get us to laugh.
There are times, though, when verbal irony is less about laughter and more about underscoring how we feel by saying the opposite of what is true. We often say the opposite of how we feel to show disappointment: 'It's okay; I didn't want to win a million dollars anyway.'
In many of her novels, but especially in 'Pride and Prejudice,' Jane Austen uses irony to critique the institution of marriage. The novel begins: 'It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.'
The irony is that most of the men in the novel are not actively in 'want of a wife.' Bingley seems to like Elizabeth's sister, Jane, but then drops her rather quickly. George Wickham is a cad, totally afraid of commitment, and Darcy thinks too highly of himself to think any woman is worthy of him.